Kat’s 3rd Annual New Year’s Day Dinner

Here’s the dish! I love to entertain, but I don’t do it much because I have small living quarters. For the past few years, I have had friends over on New Year’s Day for a traditional southern meal of Fried Chicken, Macaroni & Cheese, Collard Greens, Black Eye Peas, Cornbread, Chocolate Chip Pie, and the best Red Kool-Aid you’ve ever had. In southern culture, we eat Collard Greens to represent financial prosperity and Black Eye Peas for good luck in the coming year. The Cornbread, well that’s for sopping up all that southern goodness. After having a spectacular Thanksgiving with the Jenkinses, I thought I’d take to the blog to share with you all some of my family’s most delicious southern dishes.

My maternal grandmother, Susie Mae, was one of the best cooks I’ve ever known. When grandma cooked dinner for the family, every plate was clean, every stomach was stuffed, and a full onset of the itis came soon after we took our last bite. When my mom left her hometown of Florala, Ala., she would call my grandma and ask her how to cook some of her favorite dishes. She ended up being the next best chef in the family. Because I loved food so much, I started shadowing my mom in the kitchen at a fairly young age. She taught me the basics, and as I grew older and my palette became more sophisticated, I started experimenting more in the kitchen and loved the journey of making delicious food for myself, my family, and my friends.

The thing I loved about my grandma’s cooking was that it was simple and delicious. She didn’t come up with crazy spice concoctions (her staples were just salt and pepper) and the recipes were simple enough for a child (that child being me) to follow them. While I like to explore in the kitchen, when it comes to the southern staples, I follow her vision and keep it simple.

Cooking Up Smoked Ham Hocks

Smoked Ham Hocks are God’s gift to the world and an essential part of many southern-style vegetables. Essentially, the ham hock is the knuckle in the joints of the pig’s legs. They are meaty, fatty, salty, smoky, and just down-right delicious. Some people prefer smoked turkey in their greens instead of the ham hocks, either because they don’t eat pork or they are going for a healthier alternative to cooking with smoked meat, but around our neck of the woods, we prefer pork over turkey any day.

Growing up, my mom always cooked ham hocks in a pressure cooker. Because of its explosive nature, however, I skip the pressure cooker and cook mine overnight in a slow cooker. Check out the simplest way to cook up ham hocks, which will be the base for both the Collard Greens and Black Eye Peas.

Southern Collard Greens with Smoked Ham Hocks


Collard Greens might be one of my favorite greens. Whole Foods will try to convince you they are next trendy super green, but collards have long been staple at southern holiday meals, especially New Year’s dinner. The leafy greens represent financial prosperity for the new year, so you will most certainly find a pot of them simmering on stove tops across the south on January 1st.

People often do the absolute most to greens. Most of this is due to the fact that they cook them with smoked turkey meat, which, in my humble opinion, doesn’t pack the same flavor as a pork base. If you are still among the few people who eat pork, the best way to cook up Collard Greens is with deliciously Smoked Ham Hocks. They provide the right amount of smoky and salty flavor to make your greens delicious and tender. Now, I wouldn’t suggest cooking them with ham hocks throughout the calendar year, but that special stretch of holiday time between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Day, ham hocks are the way to go!

My grandmother’s recipe contained only five simple ingredients and will have you hiding plastic containers of your collards before the family comes over and scrapes the pot clean! Check out this simple recipe for Southern Collard Greens with Smoked Ham Hocks.

Black Eye Peas with Smoked Ham Hocks


I only cook Black Eye Peas for the new year because of they represent good luck. The other 364 days (or in this year’s case, 365 days), I indulge myself with other legumes, usually from a can. The fact of the matter is, cooking dry peas and beans can be a laborious process. I just don’t have time to search for stones and soak them overnight. My grandma is in heaven looking upon me with disdain, but my mother and I have made this dish super easy by using frozen peas. Yes, you can purchase Black Eye Peas in your grocer’s frozen vegetable section! I’ve also seen them pre-soaked and in the produce section of different grocery stores. It makes life so much easier, but plan ahead for the new year because the prepped variety go fast!


Use a Smoked Ham Hock and a cup of its cooking water as the base, and simply add the frozen peas (after rinsing, of course), cover with low sodium chicken broth (water will also work), and add salt to taste. Cook them for at least an hour until tender, and voila, you have perfectly cooked Black Eye Peas. As I mentioned in my recipe for Southern Collard Greens with Smoked Ham Hocks, you can leave the ham hock whole or remove the bones and fat and only serve the peas with the meat. You can also serve them with rice for a southern delicacy we call Hoppin’ Johns. Either way, you’re in for a simple, delicious treat that will bring you luck in the months to come!

Golden Fried Chicken


Similar to Collard Greens, people tend to over do Fried Chicken. People are usually surprised to find out, after biting into a perfectly golden brown piece of my chicken, that I only use Lawry’s Seasoned Salt and coarse black pepper to season the chicken. Yep, that’s it! Now my mother and I disagree on one thing when it comes to Fried Chicken, and that’s whether to season the flour you dredge it in or not. My mom tends to season the meat more heavily and use unseasoned flour, but I stick by seasoning the meat a bit lighter with the seasoned salt and using regular salt and pepper to season the flour.

It always baffles me at how intimidated people are by deep frying. You don’t need to have an actual deep fryer to achieve that crispy crunch. Instead of using a frying pan, use a large pot; I use a standard 6-quart stainless steel pot. The trick to achieving the deep fry is cooking with enough oil. When I’m frying up chicken for a large group, I just go ahead and purchase the gallon-size jug of vegetable oil. You need enough oil to fill 2/3 of pot you’re frying in.

Now, I know what you’re thinking: What on earth am I going to do with all that oil when I’m done?! Well, you best not throw it away! There are certain things that are staples in southern homes, and a jar of chicken grease is one of them. Jars of bacon grease and fish grease (which should be stored separately because you normally dredge fish in cornmeal instead of flour) would be other staples, in case you are wondering. As long as you don’t burn your chicken, you can use the frying oil again and again and again. I don’t deep fry food often, so it’s good to have some on hand and not have to buy it every time I want to indulge myself. Just allow it to cool completely, and using a strainer, transfer it to a glass jar and store above your stove (you can really store it anywhere but that’s where my grandma kept hers, so that’s where I keep mine).

Kat’s Southern-Style Macaroni & Cheese


One of the great debates of our time will be the proper way to cook Macaroni & Cheese. On one side, you have the people who prefer a cheese sauce-based recipe and, on the other side, a custard-based recipe. Being a southerner, I grew up eating a custard-based casserole. As I learned to cook using different techniques, I began to experiment in the kitchen. What I learned is, combining both cheese sauce and custard makes for the most deliciously creamy Macaroni & Cheese you will ever taste.

Some might be intimidated by the thought of making homemade cheese sauce, but it’s quite a simple cooking technique that can be used in a number of dishes. Check out my easy recipe for Kat’s Southern-Style Macaroni & Cheese. Try not to go around slapping your momma after you eat it.



Are you ready to revoke my southern card and never trust a word I tell you again? I’m not the biggest fan of Cornbread. There, I admitted it. I’ve always preferred a good yeast roll over cornbread. However, because it’s a part of the southern tradition, I cook it for the new year. Now, I’ll be the first to admit, I’ve served up some good ol’ Jiffy Cornbread in years past. I love its sweet, cake-like taste. But, let’s be real, I wouldn’t dare blog about serving up boxed cornbread for a holiday feast!

The first time I attempted to make cornbread from scratch, I used white cornmeal, and it didn’t come out as expected. It was going in some dressing, so it didn’t really matter anyway, but I knew I had to find the perfect yellow cornmeal for my New Year’s dinner. I scoured the store shelves, reading recipes on the back of the bags until I decided on Indian Head Old Fashioned Stone Ground Yellow Cornmeal and its recipe. Check it out!

Patsy’s Chocolate Chip Pie


I’ve always preferred cake over pie. There’s something about the light fluffy layers and the perfect ratio of cake-to-frosting that makes me happy all over. Growing up, one of my best friends’ mother introduced me to a pie that would change my life. Patsy’s Chocolate Chip Pie is pretty much the love child of a cookie cake and a pie. When I come home for the holidays and visit with my friend and her family, we eat the pie. I laughed hysterically when my friend told me about her cousin’s rant the Thanksgiving there was no Chocolate Chip Pie. Now, I would never recommend you curse out your elders for not making your favorite dessert during the holidays, but know, it’s that serious. Check out this super simple and delicious recipe for Patsy’s Chocolate Chip Pie.

Food & Friends

Hosting can be a bit overwhelming, especially in a small space. However, I managed to pack 13 friends into my tiny, 600-square foot condo, and we enjoyed this delicious New Year’s Dinner together. I was excited to share some of my family’s traditions with them, many of whom came from regions where this tradition was not celebrated. I managed not to take one single photo of the group, but after our dinner, we partook in a hilarious game of Cards Against Humanity, which I happened to win. This inappropriate game is becoming just as much a part of my dinner’s tradition as the food.

Thank you to everyone who joined me this year. May 2016 be bountiful and prosperous for all!

Until next time, folks! Keep dishing!

Dishing on Beasley’s Chicken + Honey in Raleigh, N.C.

Here’s the dish! This past weekend, I traveled to Raleigh, N.C. for @NaturallyFashionable’s inaugural Blog with Kim Live workshop. There, I would meet up with some of my Blogger Baes from Atlanta—Kay from RunWay with Kay, Lisa from Unapologetically Lisa, and Je’Mia, who will soon be launching her blog about all the happenings in and around Atlanta. I arrived in Raleigh around 6:00 p.m. (right on schedule), and checked into the hotel to get ready for dinner. About 30 minutes into my routine, Kay texted me to let me know they were just leaving Gaffney, S.C. (about 3.5 hours away) and to proceed with dinner sans them. It turns out, they ended up taking the scenic route, which included a stop at an outlet mall (insert strong side eye).

Before we hit the road, I scoured Yelp and sent the ladies four restaurant options to choose from. Of those four options, I asked a previous co-worker, who now lives in Durham, about the choices, and he recommended Beasley’s Chicken + Honey. So I finished getting ready and hit the town for my solo exploration of the city and its food.

When I arrived at Beasley’s (located at 237 S. Wilmington Street, Raleigh, NC 27601), I asked for a table for one. There were no regular tables available, so the host asked me if the community table would be okay. I agreed and found a seat at the long table that stretched from one end of the restaurant to the other. Most would think being surrounded by strangers in an unfamiliar city might be a bit overwhelming, but I reveled at the idea of enjoying my dining experience surrounded by people I didn’t know.

After I settled in, I was soon approached by my server for the night, Jeff. As he placed a mason jar full ice cold water down for me, he asked if there was anything else I would like to drink. Because I’m not a big drinker, and many of Beasley’s cocktails contained dark liquor, I opted for a good ol’ fashion Cheerwine. Now some of you might be wondering what Cheerwine is. Contrary to its name, it’s actually a non-alcoholic beverage—a cherry-flavored soda to be exact. Straight out of Salisbury, N.C. and dubbed the “Nectar of North Caroloina,” Cheerwine has been a staple in southern households since its creation in 1917. I don’t drink much sodas these days, but when there’s Cheerwine, I make an exception.

As I waited for Jeff to return with my Cheerwine, I began perusing their menu. Unlike most establishments, Beasley’s doesn’t have regular, hand-held menus. Instead its drink and food menu are etched on the chalkboard-paint-covered walls. I loved this non-traditional approach. I was beginning to notice the small details to set the atmosphere up for an evening of southern hospitality.

When Jeff returned with my Cheerwine, I took a big gulp of it before letting him know I wanted to start with the Fried Shrimp ($9.50), which include eight perfectly fried jumbo shrimp served with a delicious smoky tomato remoulade. Jeff went to put that order in while I continued to ponder over what I would order for dinner.

Beasley’s menu is a la carte—you can order chicken and other hearty entrees, individual sides for $3.50 each, or create your own veggie plate with three sides for $9.50. I ended up ordering a Quarter Fried Chicken ($7.50) with dark meat, Creamed Collard Greens ($3.50), and the Ashe Co. Pimento Mac & Cheese Custard ($3.50).

When I saw Jeff come out of the kitchen with my plate, I was like a kid on Christmas morning. Jeff was nice enough to indulge me and all my questions about my dinner. It turns out that Beasley’s double fries its chicken. They marinate the chicken in a special brine overnight. Then it spends some time hanging out in buttermilk before being dredged in mixture of flour, salt, and pepper. The initial fry is done beforehand in a pressure cooker. Once ordered, they fry it until it’s perfectly crispy and golden brown. Then they drizzle it with Be Blessed Pure Honey, a local honey purveyor. The Ashe Co. Pimento Mac & Cheese was gluttonously delicious. The cheddar used was from yet another purveyor local to North Carolina, and the pimentos added just enough sweetness to take this traditional southern dish to the next level in flavor. And I felt extra special because I was served a corner piece; we all know corner pieces are the best! The meatless Creamed Collard Greens were an interesting twist on one of my favorite southern staples. Braised in apple cider vinegar, Beasley’s adds a béchamel sauce to the greens. It reminded me of the broccoli, rice, and cheese casserole we all grew up with—just with collards. After I asked a few times, Jeff assured me there was no cheese added to the sauce, which was incredible to me because it had such a rich and creamy flavor. Again, putting a special touch on the experience with the little details, Beasley’s served this delicious meal in an aluminum pie tin. I smiled when I realized it because it reminded me of my maternal grandmother, who was one of my first culinary influences.

It turned out that a solo night on the town was just what I needed. I’m glad I ended up at Beasley’s because, even though I was a party of one, I never felt alone. Thanks for showing me your southern hospitality!

Until next time, folks. Keep dishing!